We spent the weekend in Door County for our 15th annual Family Summit. We spend three days with no technology, no other people, and no agenda other than spending tons of time outside connecting with each other and reflecting. As the boys get older, they take part in more and more of our conversations (while still having plenty of time to hunt for bugs, swim in the lake, and play in the woods). This year we were each responsible for planning a devotional and coming up with a question/discussion topic. Scott's and Erik's questions in particular inspired some really good conversation. Scott asked us all to think about whether or not we feel really cared for in our family, and what it is that makes us each feel cared for. Erik's question was "Where have we gotten in the past year in our relationships with God, each other, and the community, and how do we want to grow in each of those in the next year?" I have to say, Scott and I were both very surprised by the "secret" devotional/prayer life Erik has developed. We have always viewed him as the spiritual skeptic (takes after both his parents that way), but he has really begun to "own" his faith and spiritual growth and has a hunger we have not seen before. I am sure there will be many phases that both of the boys go through in their journeys, but it was very inspiring and encouraging to have Erik challenging US to find new ways to go deeper with God this year.
The biggest take home for us this year, that we are deeply committed to doing, was the boys' request that we take at least 3 weekends/year (besides our Summit weekend) when we commit to not being so busy. Weekends when we just hang out and enjoy each other. As we move into the pre-adolescent years, I cherish the fact that they still want to spend that focused time with us. I am sure their requests in future years will be much more along the lines of having more separation from us, so we will make this time while they are hungry for it. We all agreed that being a "missional" family means there is going to be busyness, and I think we are all okay with that for the most part. But, I do believe that making more time to grow in our relationships with God and each other will allow us to be even more missional.
I feel so blessed to have such an incredible husband and family who are all passionately committed to the mission God has called us to here in East Aurora.